How many of us, if
given the opportunity to go back in time would change just one decision
you had made? I’m sure all of us.
Here’s a question for the wives. How many
believe your husband is perfect? Never made a mistake, and always made
the right decision? During my homily, not one wife raised their hand, although
there were a few husbands coaxing their wife.
And during my homily, I prefaced this to the husbands
with, this, men is your opportunity to shine, “how many believe your wife is
perfect, always makes the right decision? Never made a mistake? Many
hands instantly went high in the air.
Ah!
But there is hope! Mark Twain said, "Good decisions come from experience.
Experience comes from making bad decisions."
Life
is a matter of decisions, good and bad, right and wrong. Either, I care or I
don’t care about the consequences.
It’s
been said that you never make the same mistake twice. the second time you make
it, it is no longer a mistake. it is a choice.
So,
the choice is ours. Just think, the many choices you and I have made in this
life, and it is those choices that have pretty much sculpt us to whom we are
today. Some good and some not so good choices.
For
many it is those very choices, that nurtured us, improved our physical, mental
and spiritual well-being. Sacrifices were made, perseverance prevailed and
goals were pictured in our minds and through hard work were achieved.
But
for others, not so much, they chose not to make those same good choices, and many
regret those decisions today.
St.
Jerome one of the greatest doctors of the Church is known for many quotes.
But the one that should leave the biggest impression, the quote
that should really penetrate our heart is, “Begin now to be what you will be
hereafter.”
Our first reading today from Sirach is a collection of
proverbial and yet, powerful teachings. Full of wisdom for those who listen,
because it provides a fundamental order in creation and life.
But what it does not do is force us, or presume that we are destined
to live by this order of life. It is the clearest statement ever written on the
subject of human free will, on the choices we make.
This reading is a soul-searching experience, one we should take and
reflect on in our own heart.
It is full of choices, set at their extremes; fire and water,
life and death, good and evil, a total picture, that includes everything in
between.
Ultimately, it is telling
us that what is before us is destruction and salvation, evil and what is good.
These are the decisions we make, they are the path we will take. These are the choices
leading us to Heaven or hell
God never told anyone to be godless. He never gave anyone a
license to sin. No, but he does demand obedience, love and goodness.
Choosing God’s will is a choice only we can make, and it is the
most important choice we will ever make. It is the decision where we begin to be what
we hope to be in the life hereafter.
And Jesus has told us so many times in the Gospels to be careful
of what we say, what we see, how we use our body. These too, are decisions we
make, decisions with consequences, and or rewards.
That is why it is so important to stay focused on God, and that
if anything gets in the way of that focus to discard it.
Today we hear a warning. Jesus is warning us to take every
precaution, and if necessary, drastic means against falling into sin, and away
from him.
It is a warning that must be taking seriously, for he has told
us that many are invited but only a few are chosen.
Consequences for sin can be harsh. The punishment can be severe,
to a place referred to as Gehenna. It is a hell.
We know that in the time of Christ, Gehenna was a valley just
outside the city of Jerusalem where the early Canaanites once offered human
sacrifices, their own children, no less
And then the Israelites turned this sacrilegious site into a
garbage heap where rotten waste was constantly being burned. And, yes there was
unbearable stench, a reminder of what hell is like, pain and suffering with no
end.
You are either for me or against me, Jesus said. It is our
choice. To be “For him” means
heaven; against him means Gehenna, an endless stench. As St. James tells us “It
will devour your flesh like a fire”.
Many of us know, that the longer we
live the more choices seem to present themselves, and are opened up for us. And
it is these choices we make that become our compass in life.
Yes, circumstances can impact our
life and the decisions we make, but God has given us the graces to still make
choices on how we will deal with them.Life is a God given gift, and with that
gift comes another gift, our free will, what and how we choose to live.
Although a gift, Life is fluid, going
this way and that way, a mind of its own. But we must be flexible adapting,
changing our course with good choices when necessary.
It is that true wisdom from the Holy
Spirit will provide us the insight, the guidance, and the perseverance to
conduct our lives in accordance with God’s will, and in ways we never thought
possible.
It’s how we live our lives that
determine if we are for him who created us, or against him, who still created
us. "Be holy, for I, the Lord, your God am
holy."
That in itself
should be our focus; the object of all our desires, our efforts, our decisions.
We have a choice. Today Picture in your mind, your final goal, a vivid
picture, aim to achieve it in this life and “Begin now to be what you will be
hereafter.” You’ll be glad you did!