A reason to be living

 

What a wonderful thought to think we can be both the salt and the light in the lives of another married couple. We, as husbands and wives, as parents and grandparents, are the salt that can help season the lives and marriages of others.

 We can be the role model, the inspiration for young couples just beginning their marriage preparation.  And we can be the light shining brightly, for those struggling in their relationships.

 Sometimes, unknowingly, others are following our example. They have placed you on that mountain and they hunger to have their troubled marriage be like yours. One or both begin to follow in your foot steps as their role model for a God centered marriage.

 There is an old song sung by many singers and groups, but for those around my age can relate to the one sung by “The Four Aces” called “Love is a many splendored thing”. The words to this song are beautiful.

 Love is a many splendored thing

It's the April rose

“Love is nature’s way of giving
A reason to be living
A golden crown that makes a man a king”

 Yes, marriage is love.  It’s all about love, and that love comes from the desire to please your spouse. It’s the sacrifice and the wish to make that blessed union that is now one, flourish in all eternity. And God is the glue in that union.

 And that love can be compared to God’s eagle’s wings, as it extends those loving wings over the whole family, the children, the grandchildren, and to our neighbor. Yes. Love is nature’s way of giving. That love we express for our family will become rooted in the love of God and will bear fruit for the salvation of our neighbors. God’s love and God’s values.

 Those same values we believe in and practice as parents are eventually taught and with the grace of God, practiced by the entire family. Unfortunately, the values of some individuals and parents, may not be God centered, and for them, their reason to be living is self-centered.

Family life is where we build the foundation for the meaning of love. From there it grows into a promise of lifelong, faithful and fruitful love between husband and wife.  And this is a gift from God, a gift we must cherish and nurture and always share

 I believe all of us have at least one couple that we looked up to, a couple who just seemed to be blessed with the gift of love, a gift shared in their marriage.  A couple whose values imitate the values of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. For me that couple was my grandparents on my mother’s side.

 They were rooted in the Church and in their country and two of the holiest people I ever knew.

They didn’t have much, being really hurt during the depression and never fully recovered, but lived life on sacrifice and love.  And their hearts were so big.  They were constantly giving of themselves and sharing the things that they had, which wasn’t much.  They rarely ever missed daily mass.

 As a child growing up, we would visit them frequently and rewarded with some homemade apple pie my grandmother always seemed to have.  And we always knew they would have for us something to take home. Maybe, it was dime at other times it was just a piece of hard tack candy. 

But whatever they gave you knew it was from the bottom of their heart and with love. They were sharing their only possessions.

 Alzheimer's began to set in with my grandmother. And my grandfather was feeling her pain.

My wife and I went to visit her in the nursing home and although she didn’t remember us she had the biggest smile on her face when we entered the room. Although we were now total strangers to her, that spirit of giving remained in her heart.

 In the nursing home, she no longer had the apple pie to make us feel at home, but she had to give something of herself. Looking through her only bedside drawer she took out a package wrapped in a napkin.  And with that big grand mom smile handed it to me to open.  It was the only thing in her drawer and it was hers to give away. It was giving with love; a cookie and her only one.

 Their difficulties were no different than yours or mine, but God was their resource for strength. They were the domestic Church with God in the center. They shared, they gave whatever they had, they sacrificed for the love of each other and each member of their family and their love cascaded to future generations and his still flowing. They were love. They were to me the light.  With that light their unselfish love in their marriage could not be hidden.  They were God’s gift for marriage to me and too many.

 For they believed that:

 Love is nature’s way of giving

A reason to be living

A golden crown that makes man a king”

Yes, true love's
A many splendored thing.

 And that is God’s family

 

 

 

 

 

It's contagious

Have you ever noticed how beautiful and glowing young couples look when they are truly in love? It’s almost like you read their hearts just by looking at their faces. They radiate a love, a happiness that can many times be contagious to those around them.

And it is also true that our actions, our priorities, even our body language, can reveal who we really are, what we believe in, and where our treasures lie.

Some people may be very quiet about their inner lives. Their sufferings, their heartaches, their concerns are hidden from the world but, yet, the love and peace of Christ still shines through for the whole world to see. They handle their crosses with dignity and trust in God’s help. They feed and are nourished on God’s Word, reflecting on that Word throughout the day.

We have all heard the expression, “You are what you eat”. Yes, to be fit and healthy, we eat foods that will not just satisfy, but nourish and strengthen the body.

There is also another expression, “you become what you think about most”. And today, this world is downright depressing, and we are being bombarded from every possible angle with the satanic beliefs of a world that is chaotic and collapsing. Many have been swayed by the media and social media to join in on this disorder to the point where these beliefs have now controlled their minds. God is no longer even a second thought.

Once a seed, negative or positive is planted in our mind, it can spread even unconsciously. That’s why it is so important to build upon the foundation of our moral beliefs; God’s beliefs, truly living by His Gospel.

“I keep my eyes always on the LORD. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken. Therefore, my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also will rest secure”. Ps 16:18-19

God has made us so beautifully. He made us as a unified person with bodies to express what is in our heart. And he wants to be the center of our thoughts expressing that love in our hearts. He wants to be the object and the love, of what we think about most.

Don’t let this world and its allurements steer you away from inner peace, or from eternal salvation.  Rather, be the one who radiates the love of God, the face of Jesus. even through all the crosses you may bear.

So many people need our prayers. The world needs our prayers and our nation desperately needs, not only our prayers, but our support and our actions to keep God’s presence in America.

Let people read your hearts, just by looking at your face, a face that radiates the love of God.

 

A Generous God! Why?

Many years ago, there was a man who lived a life of thievery, and in those days, a thief, once caught was tried and usually convicted to die. Yes, he was given the death penalty. Back then, a criminal’s death, was slow and torturous, usually lasting for hours of severe pain.

 But, shortly before his last breath, he said a prayer, ironically to the man who was dying next to him, also convicted to die. He said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom”.

 It was a plea of mercy, a plea of forgiveness. It was a plea from a man who recognized how wrong he lived his life.

 Yes, being tied with ropes and hanging from a tree for hours, exhausted and searching for every breath can be a time to look back on your life. It was on this last day of his journey he asked for forgiveness.

 “Amen I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise”. For all who seek his mercy, it is there. For all who pray for his mercy, and believe in that mercy, it will be given.  For all those who say, “Jesus I trust in you”, live in that loving mercy.

 Our Gospel reading today presents a very strange parable, startling at least, for it shows how easily the graciousness of God can very easily be mistaken for injustice.

 I work all day and receive an agreed wage.  Others work an hour and receive the same agreed upon wage. Am I jealous? Being human, I could be.

 I live my whole life, seventy or eighty years, serving God and with God’s mercy receive heaven when I die. Am I happy? The happiest I’ll ever be.

 Others live a life devoted to all the pleasures the world can offer, up until their death, and just prior to their death see their misdeeds and plead for forgiveness with true contrition, just like the Good Thief.

 Yes, Mercy is granted to that person and heaven for eternity becomes their new home. Should we be jealous?

 Not if we listen to the powerful words from our Responsorial Psalm, “The Lord is near to all who call upon Him”.

 We are all either working in God’s vineyard from the very beginning of our Christian life, or standing around idle somewhere in the world.

 But maybe then through the prayer of others a window of opportunity presents itself to us who are a distance away and God asks us to come work in his vineyard. It may be in the noontime of our life, or at the very end.  

 But, the sooner we enter and work in God’s vineyard we begin to strengthen our character, build on our Christian foundation, live by God’s commandments and be filled with His grace.

 It is then we understand and live by the values that most pleases God. It is then that we live out our Baptismal promises of always being a member of his body and sharing his Word to all we meet.

 It is only then, as soldiers in God’s army we can go and make disciples of all nations, building up God’s kingdom. It is then that we can be the one who presents that window of opportunity to those who are idle, are in the world, far away from his vineyard.

 Yes, we through the help of God we can build up his Church, by igniting the spark in lost souls.

 We are the instrument that allows others to seek the Lord, right now, while he may be found. For many we may be their last hope to call upon the Lord while he is near. For who knows what tomorrow may bring.

 Jesus said to Saint Faustina “Tell all people, that I am love and Mercy itself.” “I desire to pour them out upon human souls. Oh, what pain they cause me when they do not want to accept me”.

 His mercy if for everyone, even for those who are taking their last breath and have never worked in God’s vineyard

 From Scripture God tells us, “The favors of the Lord are never exhausted, his mercies never come to an end”.

 I’m sure many of us have more than one very close relative or friend who has strayed away and so far from God’s vineyard. And we pray every day for their conversion.

 And as time goes on, they seem no closer than before we started to pray. But, with our persistence in prayer on their death bed they ask for a priest, seeking forgiveness of their sins.

 And on that day, on their death bed, a priest brings one of God’s lost souls into his vineyard. On that day, we are not jealous for their entrance into heaven even though they worked only an hour in his vineyard.

 We are filled with tears of joy. A conversion. We knocked and a door was open. Yes, we pray for ourselves, that we stay the course, but we have an obligation to pray for the conversion of all sinners; those who are close and those who may be strange to us.

 And if just one lost soul seeks God’s mercy due to our prayers, St. James tells us “That whoever brings a sinner back from error of his way, will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.

 Like the Good thief, taking his last breath, the Lord is near to all who call upon Him. He is right by their side. And like the Good Thief, our Lord is saying to that very soul, he has forgiven them.

 And we praise God for prayers answered when we realize that every Good Thief, every sinner, anointed by a priest, whose sins are forgiven, may be hearing the precious and eternal words of Jesus, “Today you will be with me in Paradise”. We do have a very generous God.

 

 

 

Heaven is like bacon or is bacon like heaven

 It’s large puffy white clouds. It has the smell of lavender, or the fresh scent of clothes hanging in the day time sun. You can see forever. You are with all your love ones. These are some of the answers I get when I ask kids, “What is heaven like”.

I suppose I look at it a bit differently. It’s when everything just seems to be working the way it should, the body, the mind, and the spirit. And a true taste of heaven is family. Just this past summer, my wife and I went camping with some of our children and grandchildren.  It was the first time in over twenty years and we went hard core; in a tent, on an air mattress, and in a sleeping bag.

But, what a beautiful experience, to wake up to the smell of fresh coffee brewing on a camp fire. It doesn’t get any better than that. That is, until the aroma of hickory cured bacon fills the entire camp ground as it sizzles on that same open fire. I know not all will agree, but to me “That moment was a taste of heaven”

And, I really believe God gives us those moments, blessings from heaven, to help us reflect on his generosity.  And, to thank him for all the wonderful gifts he provides.

Just this very day is another gift from our Lord. It is this very day that Jesus tells us. "You must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect". Yes, every day is a gift to be used wisely, to prepare and to be thankful.

God gives us all an allotted time on this earth, a definite time in which we are to achieve His divine plan for our souls.

No, we don’t know when Jesus will come, so we live each day in hope. As St. Paul has said “if we hope for what we do not see we wait with endurance”.

What will heaven be like? Who really knows? But, I’ll bet it’s worth living for.

Do whatever He tells you

 Think back to all the weddings you have ever attended and I’m sure more than one stands out because something unusual happened at the Church or the reception.

 At a wedding, things can go wrong?  The cute and adorable ring bearer, refuses to come down the aisle, and just stands at the back of the church.  At the reception, the bride accidentally throws the bouquet of flowers into the ceiling fan.

 Then there’s the toast by the best man, who begins with, “I really haven’t prepared anything to say and I don’t like speaking in front of people” and twenty minutes later is still talking.

 Then there was a wedding where the grandmother of the bride became very sick and couldn’t attend the ceremony, but asked a special favor since she couldn’t be there.

 She, said, could someone read from Scripture, 1 John 4:18 which beautifully says: “There is no fear in love; instead perfect love drives out fear.”

 Unfortunately, instead of 1 John 4:18, they quoted from John 4:18, without the 1 at the wedding: “For you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband.”

 Yes, Things can go wrong at a wedding. And at Cana something went wrong at this wedding Jesus and His Mother attended.

 They ran out of wine, and in that culture to run out of wine was considered a sign of disrespect.

 Mary is the first to notice, and says to Jesus, “They’ve run out of wine.” What follows next are two statements that can sum up this entire Gospel, that can probably sum up all of Scripture.  

 Jesus says, “My hour has not yet come.” And, Mary responds with the wisest words ever spoken. “Do whatever he tells you,” she tells the servants.

 But, God the Father, through the voice and heart of Mary, makes this the very hour. She knows through the power of the Holy Spirit; her Son has the answer. The Hour has truly arrived.

 In all things we do, we must hear our Mother’s words, “Do whatever he tells you”.

 And what He tells us is on every page of Scripture, words we must absorb and live, for He tells us, “whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. 

 Our Blessed mother’s heart went out to the poor young couple and she interceded for them, not to the servants but to Jesus. She does the same for us.

 The interesting thing is she was not discouraged by Jesus’ response, nor did she repeat her request.  She simply tells the servants to do whatever He tells you.

 Through Mary, the servants followed Jesus’ command.  Not a moment of doubt, not a protest – they simply obey. 

 Mary, our Blessed Mother needs to be in our life, bringing us to Jesus and helping us as we battle Satan on our journey.  And just as the servants obeyed, we too must promptly obey and do whatever Jesus tells us.

 There was a miracle at Cana, the water was made wine.  But, a more beautiful miracle is performed every day on our altars; a little bread and wine are changed into the Body and Blood of Christ, His Soul and Divinity and given to us as nourishment for our souls.

 And St. Peter says it so well, “I have tasted the sweetness of the Lord”.

 Jesus tells us “come to me all who are burdened”, and our Blessed mother tells us, “Do whatever He tells you”. “Come to me all who are hungry, are thirsty, who are weary”. Come to the table of plenty, and I will give you rest.

 God wants nothing more than for our journey on this earth to lead us to him. For some it will, for others it may not.

 Heaven depends on our true love for God, and so he tells us, “If you love me, keep my commandments”.

 In our life, like a wedding, there are so many things that can go wrong. And in our life, Mary our Mother’s heart is always ready to help, for she loves us all.

 We need to reach out to her, asking her to intercede for us, to talk to Jesus in our behalf.

 Who better to help than the one who gave birth to Love Himself? Let Her words inspire you and take them to heart. See the compassion, see the face of Mary with all her love looking at you and saying, “Do whatever he tells you.”

 

Forgive and find the freedom

Every word we read in Scripture is truth and Jesus tells us “the truth will set you free”. In today’s Gospel there is a question presented to Jesus from Peter. He wants to know how often should we forgive someone? Is there a limit? Is seven times enough?

And Jesus’ answer may have astonished his listeners back then, as well as today. But His answer is truth. Seventy times seven He says. Without forgiveness, we become prisoners ourselves, holding on to the hurt and the emotions. Forgiveness is never easy, and Jesus knows that. He knows we are human with feelings and that we have a tendency to hold on to all emotions; those that bring joy, sadness and even revenge and hate.

What Jesus is telling us is in the power of forgiveness is freedom. When we forgive, God forgives us. We pray often that He forgives us our sins as we forgive those who have sinned against us. That is the Lord’s prayer that holds many of the truths of our Christian faith, and it is that truth that will set us free. Let us pray for each other that God gives us the strength and the grace to carry out His will of forgiveness.

The Miracle Doctor

 

Remember the old saying, “Is there a doctor in the house”? It’s usually said by someone after seeing another person become ill or in an accident. And, I’m sure we all can agree, doctors rarely make house calls any longer.

 But in many of our readings in Scripture, Jesus is the doctor in the house and one who makes house calls. And the most powerful doctor you’ll ever find.

 The Gospels can be full of surprises and in one particular Gospel it is a demon, possessing the body of a man, who reveals who Jesus is to us and he says, “I know who you are, you are the Holy One from God”. It is a demon who understands the almighty power of Jesus. And our Lord responds with authority, “Quiet, come out of him. The Doctor is at work, the healing is beginning, the man is saved.

 We need to examine how we personally look at Jesus and his power. The doctor of our soul. His power can save our lives?  His power can heal us.  With this power, we will feel the love and the embrace of the one who forgives us. And with that forgiveness, a new life begins.

 Yes, evil is here in this world and uncleaned spirits roam the earth. We are in the thick of a battle called spiritual warfare, but we must believe that God is more powerful than any evil. And, it is He, who has the power to heal any soul that calls out to him.

And what a gift he has given us, the Holy Spirit. It is the gifts of the Holy Spirit that help us to see and understand the evil that has penetrated our American society. It is those gifts that help us see through the many false teachings of the Church by people with an agenda

Call on the true doctor. He thrives on house calls, so invite Jesus to make your heart his home. Make Jesus your spiritual doctor.